Banatan dajon kay baje man..
The
Philippine Star reported on December 6, 2024: Maris Racal and Anthony Jennings
dominated Google search trends in the Philippines on Dec. 4 following an
explosive social media post by the actor’s non-showbiz ex-girlfriend Jamela
Villanueva.
The
surge in searches began after Jamela shared screenshots exposing popular
loveteam Maris and Anthony’s alleged infidelity in their private messages via
Instagram stories at midnight.
The
Maris-Anthony issue outpaced other major news stories such as the abrupt
declaration of martial law in South Korea, which broke out around the same
time.
This
may indicate that the majority tend to rely more on their Feeling Brain than
their Thinking Brain. Alternatively, it could suggest that many people are
deeply invested in relationships, making the topic highly relatable to them.
The
distinction between the "Feeling Brain" and the "Thinking
Brain" is rooted in psychological and neuroscientific theories, with
influences from Daniel Kahneman's Thinking, Fast and Slow. Kahneman (2011)
describes Feeling Brain as the intuitive, emotional processor and Thinking Brain
as the deliberate, analytical thinker.
Moreover,
as the issue continued to dominate social media platforms, the deeply ingrained
patriarchal mindset among Filipinos became evident, with many quick to blame Racal
as the culprit without considering the broader context or understanding the
entirety of the situation.
The
perpetuation of slut mentality and the tendency to blame women in various
situations can be understood through multiple theoretical frameworks. Feminist
theorists such as Sylvia Walby and Kate Millett, through Patriarchy Theory,
highlight how societal structures privilege men and subordinate women,
enforcing rigid sexual norms that penalize women for expressing agency over
their bodies.
Thus,
the meme on “I touch myself” seem to be entertaining to many not realizing that
they are making fun to a woman – a human being. This aligns with the Double
Standard Theory, which sociologists argue normalizes male promiscuity while
labeling sexually autonomous women as immoral.
And
as “responsible netizens” we have to understand legal implications on our
actions. Sharing screenshots of private conversations without the consent of
all parties involved violates the principles of the Data Privacy Act of 2012
(Republic Act No. 10173) in the Philippines. This law protects an individual’s
right to privacy by regulating the collection, processing, and disclosure of
personal information.
In
this case, the conversation between Maris and Anthony falls into this. Conversations,
particularly private messages are under this category, as they contain
identifiable details about the participants. Sharing such screenshots without
consent not only disregards privacy but also breaches Section 11, which
mandates the fair and lawful processing of personal information.
The
tendency to gloat over a woman's mistakes is deeply rooted in ingrained
societal norms and gender stereotypes that devalue women, often holding them to
stricter standards than their male counterparts. However, it is essential to
recognize the importance of understanding and adhering to the law to prevent
harmful repercussions. Acknowledging the legal frameworks in place helps
safeguard individual rights and ensures that such behaviors are met with
accountability.
The
incident involving Maris Racal and Anthony Jennings serves as a stark reminder
of the ongoing need to address and end violence against women, both in the
physical and digital spaces. Such actions, which involve the sharing of private
and intimate content without consent, not only harm the individuals involved
but also perpetuate a culture of disrespect and exploitation.
YOU
can be her. Or, your child, your friend, sister or even your own mother…
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