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Akoy pirme matuman!
In
human relations, there are people who are dominant. They need to be followed
all the time. If not, their world seems to turn upside down.
PsycCentral
said that a dominant personality in a relationship may want to make decisions
for you. In some cases, dominant tendencies may lead someone to engage in
abusive and toxic relationship behaviors.
Spiritual
teacher Eckhart Tolle goes as far as to describe the need to be right as a form
of violence. At its mildest, it is inflexibility. At its height, it manifests
as dominance. The compulsion to inflict our opinions of the world on another
originates in fear. Its opposites are humility and compassion (Landry, 2020).
Is
there something wrong with people like these?
Extensive
research suggests that externalizing disorders, mania-proneness, and
narcissistic traits are related to heightened dominance motivation and
behaviors. Mania and narcissistic traits also appear related to inflated
self-perceptions of power.
How
to have a saner mind once you have companions like these?
A
person with a dominant personality feels that they know best, or needs to feel
in control. If the issue isn’t really important, it may be a good idea to just
let them have their way, at least on the surface.
But
inside, you understand that you are not allowing them to manipulate you. You
just understand their insanity.
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