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Haw-ang.
“Ambition
and position without service is like a container with holes,” asserted the bishop
of Tandag Most Rev. Raul B. Dael, DD. ““No matter how much you fill it—be it
wealth, influence, or accolades—you will always feel emptiness.”
Ambition
without a sense of service can often feel hollow, as research suggests that
personal success devoid of meaningful connection to others leads to a lack of
fulfillment. A study published in the Journal of Personality and Social
Psychology found that individuals who prioritize communal goals experience
greater life satisfaction compared to those focused solely on personal
achievement.
Similarly,
a report from the American Psychological Association indicates that
self-centered ambition can contribute to feelings of loneliness and emptiness. When
people pursue goals solely for their own gain, they may overlook the intrinsic
rewards of helping others, resulting in a sense of isolation and disconnection.
This
is a key reason why individuals lacking self-awareness often experience dull or
monotonous episodes in their lives. In an effort to escape this ennui, they may
resort to projection and actively seek out conflict, believing that these
dramatic interactions will validate their existence and give their lives a
sense of importance. This constant need for external validation reflects a
deeper struggle to connect with themselves, ultimately leading to a cycle of
dissatisfaction and unrest.
A
study by Glick et al. (2005) published in Psychological Science found that
projecting negative traits onto others can distort perceptions and lead to
increased hostility and defensiveness, further isolating the individual. These
dynamics can result in chronic feelings of loneliness and dissatisfaction.
Many
individuals grappling with loneliness stubbornly project their negative
emotions onto others, often challenging people on different platforms.
Unbeknownst to them, their true adversaries lie within, as they fail to
recognize that their struggles stem from unresolved internal conflicts. This
misguided expression not only alienates them further but also obscures the
opportunity for genuine connection and healing.
Persons
who lack the coping skills necessary to address their internal conflicts,
further compounding their mental health challenges. Over time, this can lead to
a decline in overall well-being and a greater likelihood of experiencing mental
health disorders.
By
prioritizing self-care and self-reflection, individuals can cultivate greater
self-awareness, enabling them to understand their emotions and motivations.
Integrating
service into ambition and position is vital for finding true fulfillment and
purpose, turning personal success into a force for collective good.
Self-awareness is key, enabling individuals to confront their inner struggles
instead of projecting negativity onto others. By fostering genuine connections
and addressing emotional challenges, we can enhance our mental health and
create a more compassionate and supportive community.