Leading to Entropy

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Much has been said about selfishness, but this phenomenon continues to haunt us anywhere, everywhere.

Selfishness is central to many discussions and theories of human morality, yet its psychological nature remains largely overlooked. We often consider the evolutionary side of it not its psychological nature.

Selfish behavior is not a lack of concern for others, but heightened anxiety for the self. Driven by insecurity, a selfish person is forever grasping at more and more, in a desperate attempt to get close to their ideal version of themselves (Sharma, 2021).

There are many factors that can contribute to selfishness, such as cultural influences, genetic and neurobiological factors, and personality disorders. Some people may be more prone to selfishness due to their upbringing, environment, or mental health condition.

According to goodtherapy.org, some mental health problems can contribute to the development of selfishness. Many personality disorders, particularly antisocial personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder, cause people to be so wrapped up in their own desires that they either do not notice or do not care about the needs of others.

Research suggests that selfish behaviors, such as lack of empathy or disregard for others' feelings, are associated with personality disorders like narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) (Miller et al., 2010). Individuals with NPD often exhibit self-centeredness, a grandiose sense of self-importance, and a lack of empathy, which can strain relationships and lead to emotional distress.

When people manifest such, there must be self-assessment since the mental disorder might mushroom to become an all-out illness.

Selfishness can fuel anxiety and depression. Constantly prioritizing one's desires over others' well-being can lead to feelings of isolation, guilt, and worthlessness, exacerbating symptoms of these disorders (Cramer, 2016).

In these turbulent times, there is really a need to slow down and be particular with one’s mental health. We might add more problems in the society than becoming a contributor of the greater good.