Delikado.
Loneliness
is dangerous. There are those who are trying to project an image of NOT being
lonely yet their actions obviously manifest some sort of disorder.
Many
individuals attempt to mask their isolation by projecting an image of
confidence, busyness, or even happiness, but beneath the surface, their actions
betray a deeper turmoil. These attempts to conceal loneliness often manifest in
subtle yet telling ways—whether through erratic behavior, compulsive
tendencies, or an overcompensation for emotional disconnection.
The
UCLA Loneliness Scale, developed by Russell, Peplau, and Ferguson (1978), is
often used to assess the subjective experience of loneliness. It reveals that
loneliness, even when individuals have social contact, can lead to feelings of
emptiness and disconnection, which are strong predictors of poor mental health
outcomes such as anxiety and suicidal ideation.
Some
individuals already exhibit these symptoms, displaying sudden erratic behavior,
becoming combative without warning, and lashing out at others simply to gain
attention.
Studies
have shown that erratic behavior and aggression are commonly associated with
conditions like borderline personality disorder (BPD), bipolar disorder, or
attention-seeking behaviors in personality disorders (Krause-Utz et al., 2018;
O’Connell & Myers, 2016).
These
conditions often result in impulsivity and mood instability, which can aggravate
interpersonal conflicts and worsen an individual's mental health over time.
Health
has often been emphasized as a personal responsibility, requiring individuals
to engage in regular self-assessment and reflection to gain deeper self-awareness.
However, when self-awareness falls short or blind spots emerge, external
feedback becomes crucial in identifying areas for improvement and guiding
appropriate interventions.
If
unattended and denial persists, the cuckoo’s nests await.
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