Kilaya kaw jaon maningog da
lamang nan yay torapak? These persons often hurt the
feelings of others for their tactlessness. Worse, there are those who simply do
not care about the feelings of others.
The
operational definition of tact is a keen sense of what to say or do to avoid
giving offense; skill in dealing with difficult or delicate situations. It is a
sense of what is appropriate, tasteful, or aesthetically pleasing.
People
who do not have tact is of course, tactless.
Often,
people who come across as rude, arrogant or tactless have many underlying
issues. People who are generally happy, content and satisfied with their lives
don’t project negativity onto others on a regular basis. When someone is
tactless or rude, you can safely assume that they are dysfunctional within
themselves on some level (Kloppers, 2021)
Many
develop personality disorders which influences them as adults. They learn to
distrust others and never let their guard down. Some learn that the best defense
is to attack. Narcissists, sociopaths, psychopaths come from disturbed
childhoods. Genetics also play a part and the mix of genetics and environment
can result in an explosive combination of nastiness (thoughtsonlifeandlove,com).
These
people exist. They sometimes are within our areas. They often annoy us
especially when they constantly display their distasteful behavior. Although we
understand that they were pathetically raised by their parents, this can never
be an excuse for them to hurt us.
If
they constantly attack, we can magnify their flaws out loud. We can give them a
dose of their own medicine. Sometimes, it is TACT when we deal with difficult
people.
We
can also speak their language.
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