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Jaon sila kun mabibo pa. Waya na kun waya nay imo. This is a harsh reality that we have to confront. There are people whom you thought are your real friends. They are always there when they need your comfort and companionship. But they are not there in times when you are the one to need them.
A
fair-weather friend is there when things are going well for you, but disappears
during your rough patches (Sherman, 2016).
There
are times when you wonder why there are people who suddenly appear or call you
up. There are even those who will cajole you to have outings with them since
they are bored. These persons are oftentimes using you as an instrument to wipe
away their boredom. Selfish ones won’t be there when it is your time to need
them.
Fair-weather
friends are exploiters of true friendship who are interested in unilaterally
receiving support.
A
person who is for you will celebrate your victories, cry with you during times
of sorrow, and be there when you need advice. A fair weather friend is someone
who is there for you only when it’s convenient for them. Not every person can be
elevated to the status of a true friend.
One
of the worst cases is when you will be picked by someone to be a friend because
you are “convenient”. You seem to be the submissive type that the narcissistic
characteristic of the other won’t be overshadowed. You are there any time the
selfish friend wants you. You are always the follower so the ego of the
egocentric individual won’t be harmed.
Meghan
Marcum said: Being used is definitely not a sign of a healthy relationship. It
means one person is taking excessively while the other is making all the
sacrifices.
We
will not fall prey on this unhealthy relationship. Detect early signs and leave
them. There are people worthy of your attention and will be there in times when
you are down. It is high time to be unleashed from the manipulating and
sickening behaviors of these people.
We
set ourselves free. We deserve true friends. We are not just for convenience.
We have needs too. We deserve to be loved.
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