Maglagot sija kun kalabwan
isan na kun hamok ganahn sa iban kay sa ija! There
are people you know who will be irked when they notice that someone is more
appreciated than them.
Envy
is the personal pain caused by the desire for the advantages of others. In Envy
is mean and miserly, and arguably the most shameful of the deadly sins (Burton,
2014).
But
there are those people who tend to hurt others due to their envy. This is when
HOSTILE ENVY is developed by people starting from a young age.
Hostile
envy occurs when you feel angry and want the other person to fail in some way.
You might criticize their success or their personal qualities, claim their
success was undeserving, or claim that they manipulated their way into their
position (Leahy,2015).
After
achieving something, the person with hostile envy will look for your mistakes.
These types will then magnify such mistakes and they will even say mean words
to you. You often get affected with their deeds since they won’t stop until you
will be emotionally hurt.
Schadenfreude
is a German term composed of Schaden, that means “harm,” and Freude, that means
“joy,” so the word Schadenfreude refers to the pleasure at another's
misfortune.
Experts
hypothesize that misfortune afflicting an envied person can bring pleasure
because it makes the advantaged target less enviable, as well as removing the
underlying envy (Saleh, 2019).
Is
this healthy? Of course not! This condition is a skew in the psychological
well-being of a person.
Schadenfreude
is thought to be closely linked to Dark Triad traits (ie, narcissism,
Machiavellianism, and psychopathy), as well as sensational interests, including
those in guns, knives, true crime, the occult, and Nazism.
In
reality, they are around us. They are members of your family, officemates, your
boss, an acquaintance or even inside the circle of your friends.
Let
us avoid these people. They often steal our sanity.