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Jaoy pa gihapon mga macho… Mahamok

Jean Mangaluz of the philstar.com reported on August 15, 2024: Former "bad boy" turned Sen. Robinhood Padilla questioned if there was anything a husband could do to compel his wife to have sex with him even if she does not want to, leading to a lesson on consent.

The senator who led the senate poll then was addressed by feminist lawyer Atty. Lorna Capunan who made it clear: No means No, even in the context of marriage between a wife and a husband.

“Paano ako?” the bad boy of Philippine cinema then gesticulated.

Consent is a fundamental human right that must be upheld in all relationships, including marriage. The notion that a spouse could be coerced into sexual activity is deeply troubling and reflective of outdated and harmful attitudes towards marriage and gender roles.

Senator Padilla's remarks present an opportunity to reinforce the importance of educating society on the principles of consent. This includes understanding that consent must be freely given, enthusiastic, and revocable at any time. It is crucial for lawmakers, public figures, and educators to champion these principles, ensuring that everyone—regardless of gender—understands and respects the boundaries that protect individual rights within all relationships.

Morrison Torrey (1991) explores the legal and social implications of marital rape and the importance of consent in marital relationships. His study provides a comprehensive analysis of how the law has evolved to recognize that marriage does not nullify an individual's right to bodily autonomy.

Legally, marital rape is recognized as a crime in many jurisdictions, including the Philippines. The notion that a spouse has an inherent right to sex without the other’s consent is not only outdated but also legally indefensible. If Senator Padilla is unaware of these legal protections, it might reflect ignorance of the law, particularly in areas related to gender and human rights.

Worse, if Senator Padilla lacks this knowledge, it is a serious issue that could undermine his effectiveness as a legislator and his ability to represent his constituents fairly and justly.

Paano tayo?