Uman di man sija makatunong
pagtubag? Have you encountered people who do not know how
to answer questions? You see, there are those who will be asked with a simple
question answerable with yes or no but they answer you with phrases. That is
when communication halts.
Is
this their way of sounding clever? Or, they are simply incompetent with their
communication skills.
A
good communicator can encourage two-way dialogue, discuss critical issues,
exchange information, build trust, and engage people in the desired goals of a
group.
Good
communication skills are key to success in life, work and relationships.
Without effective communication, a message can turn into error,
misunderstanding, frustration, or even disaster by being misinterpreted or
poorly delivered (Hereford, 2020).
Yet,
there are people who are incapable to communicate since the concept of this as
two-way is not applicable to them. They think that their own ideas are the
important ones. Often, their insecurities propel them to block another person
for them not to confront the inferiority of their ideas. Or, their narcissistic
personality overpowers.
One
of the main reasons why we dislike certain personalities is their inability to
listen and their power-seeking efforts to cut us off. These types like to be
the center of the conversations to the point that they think that all
conversations gravitate to them, their spouses and children or anything about
their lives.
If
you know somebody who constantly makes everything about themselves or seems to
have little to no consideration for others, you are likely dealing with a
self-centered person. This is common
with people who have narcissistic personality disorder and makes it difficult
for them to maintain healthy relationships with others (Mutziger, 2022).
Sometimes,
the concept of “having a standard” on friendships is a wrong concept. You
simply do not know how to communicate well. This might be caused by something in
your personality. A disorder might be one.
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