Friday, September 9, 2022

Swatting the Gadfly

 

                                                 (image: youtube.com)

Jaoy gajod siway na pangisip.Magpahisulti da lamang para kaw ma-insulto In a group, an organization or even a small circle, there will always be someone or two who give you headaches.

Psychological theories of deviant behavior come from a variety of perspectives. The psychoanalytic approach, for example, might suggest that all people have repressed, unconscious urges that lead to social deviance (Hartney, 2022).

Learning theories, on the other hand, might suggest that these behaviors are learned by watching others engage in deviant behaviors.

Genetics also has an effect on temperament and overall personality. These characteristics and traits may influence the likelihood that a person is born with the character traits.

But, can’t an adult learn to be more congenial and behaved rather than enjoy being the gadfly? You see, it is very irritating for leaders to be continuously bombarded with the “complaining” simply for the sake of the act with no deeper intention but to create confusion among the group.

Why some people are enjoying being cruel?

Humans typically do things to get pleasure or avoid pain. For most of us, hurting others causes us to feel their pain. And we don’t like this feeling. This suggests two reasons people may harm the harmless – either they don’t feel the pain of others or they enjoy feeling that others are in pain (McCarthy-Jones, 2020).

Another reason people harm the harmless is because they nonetheless see them as threat. Their insecurities propel them to insult, hurt or deviate from your ideas since they feel that they are better than you.

Poor people! We could not imagine how unhappy their lives can be.

For us, we continue to learn and proceed to become better versions of ourselves by empowering others. Not hurting or insulting them.

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