Bisan unhon pagtago motunga
gajod an tinood na kolor. There is brouhaha over the
scene where the vlogger Alex Gonzaga smeared the face of a waiter with cake
icing during her birthday. People found the act as rude even if the culprit
claimed that it was just a joke and she knows the waiter.
Inquirer.net
reported: Alex Gonzaga on Wednesday night apologized to the waiter who she
smeared icing cake on during her birthday celebration in Pasig City on January
16. Gonzaga, on her Instagram Stories, said sorry to the hapless waiter who was
identified by her family’s publicist as Allan Crisostomo, saying the incident,
which was caught in a now-deleted video and had become viral on social media,
had been a lesson in “humility and kindness” for her.
According
to Cambridge dictionary manners are ways of behaving toward people, especially ways
that are socially correct and show respect.
These
are developed inside the house through the nurturing care of the parents and
reinforced in the school. Whatever the person has developed, it would often
show on the movements, the manner they talk and even the way they dress and
present themselves in public.
Incivility
is defined as a mild form of deviant behavior that is low intensity, ambiguous
as to intent to harm, violates respectful social norms, and does not form a
decided pattern of behavior (Emotions,
Technology, and Behaviors, 2016),
There
is no excuse for rudeness. This might be attributed to bad parenting and skewed
value system.
Whether
you are friends with someone, it is rude to perform a joke that may harm the
feelings and dehumanize the person. That is why “pranks” should be considered
properly since the stress it can bring to others might be too much for the intended
fun.
Being
civil and cultured matter.
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