There
is nothing wrong with aiming to become better. Research shows that having a
strong network of support or strong community bonds fosters both emotional and
physical health and is an important component of adult life.
You
will be disliked if you are tactless, unruly and mean. Let us look at these
things and learn to be a better version of ourselves.
·
Negative tactless people often
lack self-love and inner peace and contentment (Kloppers, 2020).
If we lack self-love, then a big tendency is
that we do not CARE about the feelings of others. There is a need for us to
accept our flaws. We shy away from looking for the mistakes of others to feel
good about ourselves. Harsh words are reflections of your inner turmoil. Be
content with what you have and be grateful on things which are blessed to you.
·
Unruly people have bad
behavior. Bad behavior is frequently a symptom of a bigger issue. If we
regularly act out in inappropriate or irritating ways, it’s often a call for
further self-awareness. Something deeper (unresolved anger, pain, fear, etc.)
may be behind those poor relational skills (Davenport, 2022).
It has been repeatedly mentioned by self-help
authors that the most effective way to understand life is to become self-aware.
When you are unruly and you tend to purposely annoy others, something is wrong.
The hang-ups must be processed well and worked on for improvement. Keeping a
journal helps.
·
In psychology, the term
aggression is defined as a wide range of actions and behaviors that can result
in mental, emotional, or physical harm to a person, others, or objects. Even if
it is done subconsciously or when one loses control, portraying signs of
aggression often results in hurting another person physically or emotionally (Gray,
2020).
Being
mean hurts a lot of people emotionally, If the actions are intended, probably
the Gotham Asylum is still open.
Life
is short. We are not perfect but we can at least try to be better.
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